You stop believing in Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy, and your ability to control the thoughts and actions of another.

You CANNOT 'Affair-Proof' a marriage. The fact is, you could be the greatest spouse in the world, doing all the right things, a 'stepford spouse' who never makes a mistake - and some cheater out there will still decide to cheat. The decision to cheat or not to cheat starts with THEM. They can justify it any way they want, but when all is said and done, only THEY could have stopped themselves. And they chose NOT to instead of working out their issues with you.

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